The root of all marital issues is loss of romance love. For a couple to be and stay together they must be able to feel that spark of romance, they first felt when they laid eyes on each other.
There are many things you can do as a couple to bring back that spark of romance love back to your marriage. The first thing you need to do is to change the way you view each other. Don't wake up in the morning and expect your wife to prepare you breakfast, why don't you prepare breakfast for her today?. Doing something impulsive every once in a while keeps a relationship fresh and revitalized. It would be a good idea to take the day off, and plan a candle light dinner. Wouldn't it be great if you could visit the restaurant you did when you first started going out?
It just takes little things such as these to keep a romance love alive in a marriage. There is no big secret to reveal, we probably know what we should do right in the bottom of our hearts but we are just too timid to do them. Marriage is not about being timid; you shouldn't want to hide anything from your life partner, because the biggest secret is that sharing brings about a romantic feeling and closeness. Feel free to share your inner most thoughts and desires with your partner.
Don't think about what has changed since you have been married, think about what you people still have even though that you are married. Most couples start taking each other for granted just a few years down the lane, why? Well because they just don't share things they once used to. Most people mistake romance for sexual desire, which is not true, sex, is only 25 percent of a marriage. In order to feel loved you must love.
Try to be unpredictable, don't be a slave to your daily grind. However I wouldn't advise that you go out and quit your job or leap off a bridge. What I really want you to do is to go out on a trip together, without having to plant It out, it should be sort of an impulsive trip.
Rekindling love romance in a marriage is not just one partner's responsibility; both parties should work towards bettering the way they live as a couple. The biggest thing is to stop the blame game and start taking responsibility, it is only then that you will really begin to enjoy each other.